This
blog is about the textbook, “Being: Your Happiness, Pleasure, and Contentment”
by Don Lucas. Who, it turns out is a professor at the college I am attending,
although not my professor.
Well
let’s cut to the chase about this book. The author has stated on page 4 that he
knows that I do not want to be happy and neither do you. What we want to be is
content. He states that happiness is only a short term feeling. People think
they want it but they are confused. The meaning of life will be explained to us
so we may have “everlasting positive emotions.” This misconception will all be
addressed in chapter 2. Wow it is not going to take him long.
Secondly
we are not in control; other people in our life are controlling our happiness.
If they are not happy we will not be happy. This guy is full of good news.
Of
course you probably know this one is coming; money will not make us happy. He
does admit there is a relationship between money and happiness. But it does not
cause happiness, or lead me to happiness.
Finally
we are all wrong if we are stating we never want to be content. Apparently that
is exactly what we do want. Again, all of this will be cleared up and explained
in chapter 2. I cannot wait to read it.
A clarification
from the author. He states this is not a self-help book. He states it does not fall
into that trap. He says those books assume most people are unhappy and this one
does not. Secondly those books promote us to take more control of our lives to become
happier, this book does not.
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