Wednesday, February 5, 2014

The author has also provided a list in the chapter of examples of many of the things people pursue to find happiness. He states, "All of the things on the list ... are for naught; for the "happiness" that results from these things is temporary and may best be described by other positive emotions in particular: pleasure. While I do agree with him about a number of the things he lists, I certainly disagree strongly with him about several of them.
The material things on the list definitely belong there; houses, boats, and automobiles are not going to bring you happiness. In fact they may depress you more after acquiring them. The dream of having them and the struggle to acquire them is more satisfying. If you place too much importance on them though, you will be disappointed. It is just a “thing”, and after you have it and your life does not change, many people can become depressed or they simply start the chase after the next thing.
There are other items listed that are temporary in their nature; fame, beauty, vacations, and youth are some of those he lists. Again no lasting happiness. Some of the things he lists are very important; learning, education, diplomas, and careers. There is much satisfaction which will be had through these things, certainly some happiness, but certainly not permanent happiness. They also can bring a lot of unhappiness and stress.
What I totally disagree with him on is family, marriage, religion, and God. Yes, I know, the first two can also cause stress and unhappiness. But not for everyone. Religion (or spirituality) not as a collection of church laws or rules but as your beliefs can bring you lasting happiness.
God is certainly permanent and enduring happiness and so much more.  

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