The author has also provided a list in the chapter of examples of many of
the things people pursue to find happiness. He states, "All of the things
on the list ... are for naught; for the "happiness" that results from
these things is temporary and may best be described by other positive emotions
in particular: pleasure. While I do agree with him about a number of the things
he lists, I certainly disagree strongly with him about several of them.
The material things on the list definitely belong there; houses, boats, and automobiles
are not going to bring you happiness. In fact they may depress you more after acquiring
them. The dream of having them and the struggle to acquire them is more
satisfying. If you place too much importance on them though, you will be
disappointed. It is just a “thing”, and after you have it and your life does
not change, many people can become depressed or they simply start the chase
after the next thing.
There are other items listed that are temporary in their nature; fame,
beauty, vacations, and youth are some of those he lists. Again no lasting
happiness. Some of the things he lists are very important; learning, education,
diplomas, and careers. There is much satisfaction which will be had through
these things, certainly some happiness, but certainly not permanent happiness.
They also can bring a lot of unhappiness and stress.
What I totally disagree with him on is family, marriage, religion, and God.
Yes, I know, the first two can also cause stress and unhappiness. But not for
everyone. Religion (or spirituality) not as a collection of church laws or
rules but as your beliefs can bring you lasting happiness.
God is certainly permanent and enduring happiness and so much more.
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